Wiz......Quite frankly, at my age I'd rather take a nap. It's cleaner, cheaper, more satisfying and don't smell near as bad.
When you are done with a nap, you don't have to cuddle, send flowers, or figure out how to politely run some "fluff muffin" out of your house.......or sneak out of hers.
A nap won't nag you if you don't call again. I can take one every day of the week and nobody will call me a slut.
Do I miss that other stuff? Sometimes, but I had it when I needed it and life is ever so much easier when you quit thinkin' with your little head.