Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence, they are not sure of their self-worth and are easily upset by the slightest criticism.
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial matters. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration that they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships troubled and unfulfilling, and other people may not enjoy being around them.
Signs you're a narcissist.
- Narcissists have to be the best, the most right, and the most competent; do everything their way; own everything; and control everyone. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists constantly need attention—even just by following you around the house, asking you to find things, or constantly saying something to grab your attention. And validation for a narcissist counts only if it comes from others. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists need everything to be perfect. They believe they should be perfect, you should be perfect, events should happen exactly as expected, and life should play out precisely as they envision it. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists want and demand to be in control, and their sense of entitlement makes it seem logical to them that they should be in control of everything. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists never want to be responsible unless everything goes their way. They often place all the blame and responsibility on someone else to maintain their own façade of perfection. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists lack boundaries. They believe that everything belongs to them and everyone thinks and feels the same as they do. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists have very little ability to empathize with others and often lack an understanding of the nature of feelings. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists perceive everything as a threat. They frequently misread subtle facial expressions and are typically biased toward interpreting facial expressions as negative. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists make most of their decisions based on how they feel about something. They always look to something or someone outside themselves to solve their feelings and needs. BuzzH - Check.
- A narcissist's personality is split into good and bad parts. Any negative thoughts or behaviors are blamed on you or others, whereas they take credit for everything that is positive and good. BuzzH - Check.
- Narcissists are constantly afraid of being ridiculed, rejected, or wrong and often struggle to trust other people. BuzzH - Check.