My late Aunt's second husband was a Survivor of the BATAAN DEATH MARCH. I tried to get Warren to talk to me on a few occasion's but he just said to me, sorry Brian I just can't and don't want to remember what we went through. And most of the survivors are the same way.
It is like that with a lot of service personnel who were in any war or conflict, don't want to remember.
One of my classmates in our home town was in VN when I was there and I ran into him one day while taking care of personal matters in Saigon. I called out to him and we talked for about 15 minutes and then both left, had to get back to HDqts.
In 2000 when I put together our 40th class reunion, he came to it late, but I spoke with him about our meet in VN. His reply was "sorry Brian, that part of my life is and has been shut out for a long time". He was a Chaplain's Assistant was all he would tell me.
This day is hard for a lot of folks who have lost a love one who was in the service for our country. In fact, I will be having dinner tonight with a friends son who is home right now from Afghan. He leaves again in a week to head back over to Germany first then on to Afghan to meet up with his group of Special Forces and do what they were trained to do, all Snipers and good at it too.
God Bless them ALL,
Brian