Kenny, a sure sign of a mature individual is one who is able to both give and receive graciously. At a most difficult time, difficult beyond anything most of who have never gone through it can even imagine, you have demonstrated tremendous courage, strength and fortitude. If you can remember and and trust those many things your wife shared at Kole's services you both will, sooner than later, begin to feel whole, hopeful and optimistic again.
There will surely be humps in the road but hopefully some of the little things that have been said and done well get you over the humps like we all hoped they did this past few days. The world is a great place, filled with amazing people if they are given a chance to demonstrate it. You have been one of the good ones and those of us that have read your posts over the years believe that, that is why you have seen us try to reach out, we like the good guys.
We have thanked us numerous times and we appreciate that. Gather up your little family, trust that the future will be bright and it will be. As you've done in the past, when someone else needs a hand up and your able to do a little something to give them a little hope, take the opportunity, it will fill your heart and be our reward for doing what we could do for you.
May peace fill your soul, always.
DC
PS, please do not feel need to respond, we know how you feel and appreciate the things you've already said.