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archerelk
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Please read.... This is the most important post I will ever make.
Today I had something that hit closer to home than could ever be imagined. I know the response of most members here, please don't respond with hostility, or political positions. Your action is simple.
Today I had a member of my staff find out her son was molested. without going into details that will only inflame us, I want to focus on the important pieces.
I recently moved to a very religious community. While driving her to pick up her son she made a comment that all things happen for a reason. I did not comprehend this when she said it, and responded that sometimes bad people do bad things.
Tonight I came home and my wife and I talked with our children about what happened. It hit me that maybe all things do happen for a reason. Maybe what happened with her family is a wakeup call to all of us that feel invincable. We talked with our kids in detail and honesty that I have never done before. If we prevent this from happening to two kids, then it was for a reason.
Please talk with your children. It can, and does happen. If you have never been affected wake up and realize you could. Don't wait to be involved. Please take the time to talk with your children, grandchildren, or parents. Talk in a level of honesty you have never talked before.
Since I can find no good in what happened, please make something good come of it. Please protect your children. Email anyone in your list to talk with their kids. It can't prevent everything, but it can help. Turn a tragedy into to something with meaning.
Don't respond with hate, we all know how we would want to handle this. Please respond with support and action. I want to see 200 posts that I can show her letting her know there was a reason. We all think we know what we would do if this happened, but are all sheltered enough to keep arms length. Make a difference and talk to your kids in a way you never have.
Email everyone you know and ask them to do the same. Our goal is protecting two children. We all talk big, but it starts here. Anger is how we respond, compassion and honesty is how we prevent.
http://www.troymessenger.com/news/2010/may/14/man-charged-sodomy/
Archerelk
Today I had something that hit closer to home than could ever be imagined. I know the response of most members here, please don't respond with hostility, or political positions. Your action is simple.
Today I had a member of my staff find out her son was molested. without going into details that will only inflame us, I want to focus on the important pieces.
I recently moved to a very religious community. While driving her to pick up her son she made a comment that all things happen for a reason. I did not comprehend this when she said it, and responded that sometimes bad people do bad things.
Tonight I came home and my wife and I talked with our children about what happened. It hit me that maybe all things do happen for a reason. Maybe what happened with her family is a wakeup call to all of us that feel invincable. We talked with our kids in detail and honesty that I have never done before. If we prevent this from happening to two kids, then it was for a reason.
Please talk with your children. It can, and does happen. If you have never been affected wake up and realize you could. Don't wait to be involved. Please take the time to talk with your children, grandchildren, or parents. Talk in a level of honesty you have never talked before.
Since I can find no good in what happened, please make something good come of it. Please protect your children. Email anyone in your list to talk with their kids. It can't prevent everything, but it can help. Turn a tragedy into to something with meaning.
Don't respond with hate, we all know how we would want to handle this. Please respond with support and action. I want to see 200 posts that I can show her letting her know there was a reason. We all think we know what we would do if this happened, but are all sheltered enough to keep arms length. Make a difference and talk to your kids in a way you never have.
Email everyone you know and ask them to do the same. Our goal is protecting two children. We all talk big, but it starts here. Anger is how we respond, compassion and honesty is how we prevent.
http://www.troymessenger.com/news/2010/may/14/man-charged-sodomy/
Archerelk