>Little standard I live by that
>I learned a long time
>ago regarding money.
>
>If someone i know needs money,
>I will never saddle them
>with the obligation of a
>loan. If I have it
>to lend them, I need
>to be willing to just
>give it to them. I
>don't want anyone being a
>"slave" to me. Same goes
>for your situation, if that
>money leaves you wallet, you
>need to be willing to
>give it and give it
>freely. Now, that doesn't mean
>you don't live and learn
>by this and have a
>plan set up prior so
>everyone knows they are splitting
>the bill. But once that
>money leaves your wallet, have
>the mindset that its gone
>and you'll never see it
>again. It actually does more
>for you than the person
>you're doing it for. Its
>freeing not to have to
>worry about it. Now I
>read your posts and I
>know you've let it go
>which is very cool and
>wise of you. You can
>also explain it this way
>to your wife. Wives have
>a way of putting pressure
>on you about money and
>friends.
>
>Not trying to stir the pot
>but my woman doesn't "let"
>me do sh!t. She also
>doesn't "give" me time off.
>We discuss things of course
>but that crap don't fly
>with me! I work damn
>hard for the money I
>make and 90% of the
>year I'm home with the
>kids and if I'm going
>hunting, she can come or
>she can stay but I'm
>going hunting.
>
>Now my ex-wife, that was a
>different story and thats why
>she's my ex wife.
>
Well said....On both accounts
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