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So we all know it is nice to provide a helping hand to someone every now and then, especially when life gets difficult with unemployment, health issues, legal trouble, etc.
But, at what point does that actually become detrimental to the person you are trying to help?
Where is the line between enabling and helping?
Also, if after you have helped someone like this for a while should you be concerned that maybe their failure to make it after that might partially be your fault because you didn't allow them to gain enough independence earlier on?
Is it ethical to just cut someone off of your assistance cold turkey if they have been dependent on you for an extended period of time?
Thoughts?
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But, at what point does that actually become detrimental to the person you are trying to help?
Where is the line between enabling and helping?
Also, if after you have helped someone like this for a while should you be concerned that maybe their failure to make it after that might partially be your fault because you didn't allow them to gain enough independence earlier on?
Is it ethical to just cut someone off of your assistance cold turkey if they have been dependent on you for an extended period of time?
Thoughts?
_______________________________________
Burnin' up don't know just how far that I can go, soon be home only just 4 downs to go, I can make it I know I can! You broke the boy in me but you won't break the man! I can see a new horizon blazin' on the Mile High. I'll be where the eagle's flyin' higher and higher! Gonna be your man in motion, all I need's my Broncos team take me where my future's lyin' Tim Tebow's Fire! GO BRONCOS!
HOOK 'EM!
_______________________________________
Since I am frequently asked about my religion on this site and others, I have created a profile that explains my beliefs. If you are interested in finding out more about my faith, please visit the link below:
http://mormon.org/me/6RNQ/