Any Judges on here? Need some advice

muzz · Dec 5, 2007

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If there is I am going through some ex wife child issues and need some advice.

Shummy · Dec 5, 2007

What's the problem? I'm not a Judge, but I've had about every x-wife-child issue there is to be had. I pretty much live in a court room. I have custody of my son and my x is always trying to trump up a way to get him back. I'll bet there are more than a few guys on here with some experience in x wives.

BigFly · Dec 5, 2007

Amen Brother! I too have gone through hell. What kind of advice are you looking for? I have had enough hours inside of a courtroom to earn a degree in law. Hopefully we can help you out here.
Fly

Shummy · Dec 5, 2007

Remember, what you post on the internet can and will be used against you, so if discretion is necessary a PM might be more appropriate.

Deerlove · Dec 5, 2007

Muzz been there done that let me know for if you need advice. Russ

Ropinfool · Dec 5, 2007

LAST EDITED ON Dec-05-07 AT 11:51AM (MST)[p]Been there, done that. Good luck to you....you'll need it.

I wouldn't wish that crap on anybody. You never truly know a woman until you meet her in divorce court.

TFinalshot · Dec 5, 2007

I'm in, been through it, whatcha need?

Stay calm, focus on the kids, and their needs and dont let the x get under your skin - stay focused. . .

Shummy · Dec 5, 2007

Divorce is an old Indian word for "I don't like you anymore." I told my x that, she got mad, I was happy.

Ropinfool · Dec 5, 2007

In all seriousness try to treat it like a business decision and if you can leave the emotions out of it, it's better. I know that's sort of impossible though. Think of the children but fight for what you want.

Also, keep your nose clean. Don't give her anything to use against you.