Unfortunately, that is too true! When my kids were growing up, all their friends liked coming over We fed them pretty good! Simple rules - no lying about ANYTHING, there is no yeah or nah, only yes ma'am and no ma'am. Hats are worn correctly around the house, and not worn at all at the table. Ended up taking in a niece and two troubled boys from crappy families. They turned out pretty good, and niece is an insurance agent and boys are TSA Inspector and other an independent business owner.